Adjusting To Her Intelligence

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"If she?s a member of Mensa or a regular girl with a regular IQ, you?ll need to know the smart way to adjust to her intelligence."

If a woman is very smart, she is used to having her brains as the focus.Smart or not, letting her talk about herself is key.Don't ever put a woman down for her mental strengths or weaknesses.A player is not someone who gets theirs and leaves a trail of broken hearts. A player is not someone who jumps from one shallow bed to the next. A player is that person who lives life like a legend, puts a woman into a passionate romance and works his job like he built the company. This player in particular has covered the globe as a photojournalist. Camera in one hand and laptop in the other, I’ve seen the best and the worst across time zones and international waters. In these travels, the foundations of how to play have been learned. 

Just as beauty runs the gamut, so does intelligence. There are the book-smart who borderline on genius with high IQs. There are the street-smart who may not have the scholastic credentials but know their way around tough situations. Brains are definitely another aspect of relationships that need to be addressed, and especially must be considered when a player is stepping up to a new lady. If she’s a member of Mensa or a regular girl with a regular IQ, you’ll need to know the smart way to adjust to her intelligence.

I’ve made love to a nuclear physicist and been intimate with a GED recipient. Both were good women who brought various aspects to the relationship. Why were they equally great? Because the emphasis, while dating, love-making and pursuing, was never about their intelligence. If a woman is highly intelligent, she is used to having her brains be the focus, similar to looks with an extremely beautiful girl. It will either be an annoyance for her or a boost to her arrogance. If a woman is not considered or doesn’t consider herself to be bright, she has also been judged by her intelligence. Focus on additional aspects of who she is and watch her react to you with intrigue. 
Her brains have always been judged. She’s either been called a nerd and a brainiac or a dimwit and a ditz. The key is to ask her about her interests, passions and knowledge. More than likely, other men have focused on her smarts (or lack thereof) and rarely asked her about her. People love talking about themselves and what they love. Once you find her expertise and what topic lights her up, pursue it, explore it and watch her open up to conversation -- and open up to getting to know you.

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